Not a New Kink
Chastity has been a long-standing practice in many cultures and religions around the world. It is a voluntary act of abstaining from sexual activities or refraining from any sexual behaviors that may lead to sexual arousal and eventual release. The joys of chastity are different for each person.
Why Lock Your Cock?
For some, chastity is a choice made for religious reasons, while others see it as a form of discipline and self-control. Those are the men I take on. With the rise of BDSM culture, many individuals have begun to explore the erotic aspects of chastity and have incorporated it into their sex lives. Some men do this on their own, but most eventually find that it is not as exciting done solo.
What You Need
Chastity devices, such as cages and belts, are commonly used in BDSM circles to enact this restraint. These devices are typically designed to prevent sexual release and make it difficult or uncomfortable for the wearer to become aroused.
The exciting news is that there are now multiple options to use these devices in a long distance chastity relationship. I can have access to locking you up, unlocking you, giving you pleasure or pain. Oh my.
Psychological Effects
The psychological effects of chastity can be complex and wide-ranging. For many, it can lead to an increase in desire and sexual excitement, as the act of abstaining from sexual release intensifies the body’s natural responses. It can also promote deeper connections between partners as they explore each other’s boundaries and desires.
Some individuals may experience frustration and longing, while others may experience feelings of submission or dominance, and some may even find that chastity enhances their spiritual practices by bringing them closer to their beliefs.
Be Careful
While there are benefits to chastity, it is essential to proceed with caution. Communication, consent and safety are crucial when implementing any BDSM techniques in your sexual practices. Engage in open and honest communication with your partner and establish safe words and other measures to ensure that everyone involved is comfortable and consensual in the activity.
Do your research on a Mistress before committing to her. Be sure she is experienced, knowledgeable and that she practices safely. If she mentions safeguards in her posts or audios, that’s a good sign. While it’s exciting to think about giving up all control to a Mistress, few have lives that can actually accommodate that. In reality, it can become overwhelming in a negative way.
Joys of Chastity
Overall, the practice of chastity can be a fascinating way to explore one’s sexual desires and limit the temptation towards sexual indulgence. As long as it is practiced with respect, safety, and communication with your partner or partners, it can lead to deeper connections and enriching experiences.
Chastity is one of my favorite fetishes. You can tell because I write about chastity a lot, and I have produced many erotic audios on the topic. Write about what you want to do. That’s my motto. You can feel comfortable about putting yourself into my hands. Not only do I have decades of BDSM experience, particularly with chastity, but I my background is in the field of mental health. I am sane, reasonable, and safety minded.