Erotic Pain Play
I’ve written about pain play before, but not erotic pain play. That is because I enjoy pain play…to a point. I’m not into extreme pain play where playthings are left with severe bruises or worse. I realize that BDSM porn focuses on that type of pain play. But it’s only for pain sluts, that is people who are turned on by pain. I watched a female submissive friend of mine have rolling orgasms while being severely flogged by two Dominants at a play party. Interesting to watch. Happy for her. But not my thing.
I am aware that men like to be scared. That’s why Mistresses will speak in a foreboding manner about the terrible pain they are going to inflict. For pain sluts, that is fun. What I enjoy is pain that enhances pleasure. It makes a great thing even better. Let me introduce you to pleasurable pain.
The Pleasure Pain Connection
If this is new to you, tuck your concerns away for a few minutes and hear me out. You may not know that the pain receptors in your brain are closely aligned with the receptors for pleasure. This is why adding some mild pain can really spice up your session. Most men don’t want that all the time. Some find it helpful for releasing stress and pent up emotions. I’ll talk more about that further in this post.
Imagine having me instruct you to tie a soft rope around the base of your cock and balls. Then I alternate between giving you stroking instructions and telling you precisely how I want you to lightly smack your cock and balls with something like a wooden spoon. You are already excited when the pain begins. As long as the pleasure is more than the pain, your pleasure will skyrocket.
More Fun Ideas
One of my favorite things is to gently apply some clothes pins to your naughty bits, then have you flick them with your fingers at the right moments. I also enjoy having you firmly grasp your balls and pull them down slowly, until it begins to hurt. Then hold that pull as I tease you into a higher erotic state.
There are so many ways you can explore erotic pain play. You have items in your home or office now that work beautifully for that. I have been called the MacGyver of sex toys, because I can always help you find something we can play with.
Want a Closer Look?
I invite you to check out a few of my pain play audios. Here are links to some I believe will entice you further to incorporate erotic pain play into your session.
Yes, I know that I have two spanking audios listed. That is no mistake. Spanking is one of my favorite fetishes. Don’t worry. I won’t take it too far. Through my years of lifestyle and phone Mistress experience, I have perfected the art of giving you a spanking so sensual you will crave getting another. Mmm.
Want to Try Erotic Pain Play?
If you are new to me, call me on Niteflirt on my “Chastity for Discriminating Subs/slave Training” listing. If you are a regular caller of mine, simply ask me to weave some sensual pain play into your next session. Do call the listing above for that.
I look forward to expanding your mind about the role light pain can play in the power of your releases.
